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Relationships

The key to relationships is authenticity, sincerity, between both parties. Thus, learning becomes available from friendship, rather than just a game of looking good to your partner, which is what most people spend all their time doing, or most.

This comes from someone who spent most of their life doing that.


Anyhow, there are some major points for how women hurt men and how men hurt women. Women have a great intuition because of millenia of abuse, which men often confuse with being overly emotional. Men should listen to women more. If she has a traumatic background, her intuition may be wrong, but anyhow, the point of listening to a girl shouldn't be that she has great intuition. Morons.

Men also are incapable of perceiving the emotional needs of their partner, as are women incapable of understanding themselves, so whem a woman gets mad at you for putting your clothes around the room in her space or eating the cookies she baked for their son's lunchbox, men proceed to focus on how to fix things practically, not realizing what they have just done is make the woman feel abandoned and uncared for by the man that was supposed to take care of her.

Furthermore, if the woman gets mad more and more, the man might, unable to solve things practically through a concrete action, because contemporary man, and in the History of our planet, is incredibly fragmented and learns to be a dumb brute as a defense mechanism often, will proceed to isolate himself. Here, contemporary man has a great skill at taking "me time" while not providing any replacement for what he is providing the woman, unlike older tiems.

So, he has failed to get money to please his woman, or change himself, so now, he must try to find a way to please his sweetheart.

It is better that he keep the relationship going, by the way, rather than just cutting things off here, because he's an idiot and doesn't realize that staying in a relationship like this is coping, which is the opposite of healing.

He should just leave, or find a way to make things workk. He won't, so he should leave~

That way the woman should get to restart her life, although it's usually not that simple unless she has a family. - Until the woman found this website, now she can learn skills and become a villainess in her new life without the man.

Unlike the man, a villainess with integrity.